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Anyway, here’s the background: I’m a guy, in my early 30s. As far as I’m aware I have good hygiene I shower every day etc, and nobody has ever mentioned to me that I have BO except immediately after I’ve done some activity which has exerted me to the point of sweating, which is understandable. In general, the way it seems to go is I’ll meet a girl, we’ll chat about whatever, she’ll sometimes mention that I’m a nice guy and whatever, and then abruptly she will stop talking to me, not respond to my IMs, tests, etc, for seemingly no reason that I can think of.

But I can’t seem to “close the deal”, as it were that is not a crude reference to sex , I just mean that getting second dates or keeping girls interested in me is profoundly difficult. What I would like to do is get feedback on why I’m having such difficulty. Unfortunately I don’t have many friends who can give me productive feedback; obviously my friends are my friends and they like me, because they’re my friends; the ones who I’ve asked have given me either non-productive feedback or have given me feedback which isn’t practical e.

What I would like to do is get feedback from the girls who have rejected me, but the problem is they don’t usually just flat out reject me; usually they just stop responding to my messages, so asking them anything is difficult. I also don’t want to go up to random girls, who I am interested in and who are my friends or at least friendly with me and ask out of the blue “why won’t you date me” or whatever, cause that’s weird.